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So! Maybe I just have a little too much faith in people. But my default assumption is that people I consider my friends care about me, and thus care about my health and well-being. And! While, yeah, it's ideal when people take the time to actually say something when shit's going down, my default assumption when you don't is not "you don't give a shit", because I wouldn't consider you my friend if I couldn't believe you had your other reasons.

Especially if you told me what those other reasons were, or if you didn't tell me but I knew you had your own shit going on, or you hadn't been saying much of anything anywhere lately.

But, you know. Maybe it's a character flaw, or something.